No Matter What

You want the next level? Learn to Rule Yourself!

Rule Yourself!

The person you are right now won’t get you where you want to go! Your thoughts, your attitude, your old story – get rid of them. Make a decision and never look back!
The person you want to become, what would that person do? Start doing it! Do it no matter what! Are you stuck, ask that questions again! What would this future me do? Do it! No excuses, no tomorrow – just do it right now – and from now on every day!
Your thoughts, Your beliefs, the stories you tell yourself about yourself, about your past.. Forget about them! They are Bullshit! You define your future! All you need to do is the work – you need to do the work every day, push through the pain every day! Push trough..

Again and Again!

Every single day! Show up and learn to master your mind: If You say you do it – you do it! You Do It – no matter what! You do it every day!
And don’t expect anything! You won’t get cheered up, you won’t look good, you won’t enjoy every moment, you won’t be great straight away.. Don’t do it for any of these reasons or you give up anyway.
Don’t waste anybodies time! You won’t get cheered up for training, you will get rewarded for achieving.
So don’t do it to look good, you won’t look good! Don’t do it for anybody! Do it for yourself! Do it because it’s your dream, it’s your life, it’s your legacy! Show up for yourself and your dream every day! Show up for yourself and your legacy Every Single Day!
When you wake up and feel like “not today”, you just really don’t want to – you really don’t feel like it, You know today you HAVE to do it!
It sucks? You suck? That’s Okay! We all suck till we commit and go full in, till we do the work consistently every day, till we face the pain, till we lean into the pain, till we get stronger than our resistance. And then?
People will laugh at you, they will laugh when you start being so far behind.. but you show up every day and you will get better every day. Every time you repeat the same move, every time you visioning yourself doing this move in that moment with that exact precision, you push through the pain again and you grow!
And eventually you will get better, you will be proud of yourself, the laughter will get quiet, people will start following you – One day, you will be rewarded!

Just Don’t Give Up – Never Give Up!

Rule Yourself – Be the best version of yourself today, show up and do your work so the best version of yourself tomorrow is better than who you have been today.
Stop comparing yourself to other people, don’t care of the people ahead of you when it comes to motivating yourself to do the work. Compare yourself to the person you have been yesterday and be better today! What matters is that you move, better move forward but never stop! Is your best version of yourself today better than the best version of yourself yesterday?
It’s an infinite game we are playing, it never stops, it stops when you die, till then it’s about you going all in – no matter what! Imagine how far you can go if you never stop – if you show up consistently!
And then you master it, one day you show up and it looks easy. You have done it so many times, in your mind, with your body, again and again and now – it’s looks easy. How will you feel once you’ve reached this level? If you struggle, remember yourself of this feeling, about you feeling the mastery. It looks like everybody could do it. And people will say this to you. It looks easy! Then they will try it and they will fail. Now they will tell you that you are talented, that you are gifted..
Now it’s about you again. Do you let them think it’s easy and experience it’s hard or do you take them with you, be their inspiration to move forward?

Keep moving forward!

It’s about repetition, it’s about continuity, it’s about showing up every single day. It’s about showing up especially if you don’t feel like it. It’s about getting feedback, from your body, from people, from failure.
It’s about staying focused in your mind, listening to the people that want to see you succeed and the people who have already achieved! Ignore any person living in its comfort zone, no matter their intention. Stop listening to them, then stop talking to them as well. Instead, listen to the people that want you to achieve and that have been successful consistently: Listen – Learn – Pivot – Train – Grow – Repeat.
There is no half way, there is no let’s try! You do it – or you waste your time! You waste your time and you waste the time and energy of people that support you and believe in you. But more importantly, you loose faith in yourself! Let me repeat it, if you stop showing up: You Loose trust and faith in yourself!
You want success? You can have success! – You want to create the impossible? You can make it possible! You want to be better than everybody else? Go and master yourself, show up, make sacrifices, feel the pain, push through the pain, stay focused on your goal! If you show up consistently – every single time – you will get better, you will learn, you will get stronger, it will feel easier!
You will learn that the hardest thing is to start, some days it will be so hard but once you are in, you are in. You start, you go, you keep going! Start your day with the uncomfortable action and you set up your day for success, you create momentum every day to set yourself up for success.
You want to go faster?
Let’s go together! Surround yourself with mentors, surround yourself with community, with like minded people, with people that hear you, people that feel you, with people that hold you accountable for what really matters to you!
Every single day – consistently – you can’t replace this with anything. You have to be ready for this one move. You have to get this one move right. You have to master it, so you are ready when the opportunity occurs.

Will you have mastered the one move that will change your life?

I will! – Will you?

“The work you do, nobody will see it. You get rewarded in public for what you have trained in private – day in and day out, relentlessly focussed and with no questions asked. No Matter What!”

Susann Pareis for the 4:13 UNMESSABLEWITH